> Yeah I agree that it's anxiety-based rather than denial, mc1. Often it is
> this anxiety that interrupts the arousal process. Messiah, you say that you
> always found it difficult to make a move with girls, but I know many
> heterosexual guys that have this same problem. That being said, I realize
> that it is extremely anxiety-provoking when the HOCD kicks in.
> I appreciate that you guys are coming to/using the forum, my colleague is
> also joining to help out!
Safety in numbers, we know we're not alone. I'll say something I obsess over is big groups, primarily military. I've always been enthralled by large numbers of men and women working together for a common goal.